Musing

I'm a better man because...

I grew up with two loving and caring parents. An unapologetic combination of old school respect, consequences and the absolute knowledge that no matter what - no matter what, I was loved.

I learned early that it's not about finishing first or last, it's about being the good guy, the nice guy. Doing your best, having a good time while doing it and being able to look at yourself in the mirror.

Knowing people that inspire and challenge me is what separates me from the sycophants and their enablers. Too many to mention but I'm betting dollars to donuts you know exactly who you are. My confidants, my friends, my brothers and sisters. People that, at the end of the day, make me feel like I'm a better person just by knowing them, by having them touch my life.

All those that have taken risks to put themselves out there. Writers, poets, song makers and George Carlin. All of us stand on your shoulders for blazing the way forward.

Food. Good food. That glorious tomato touched with sea salt. That first Thai curry. The spaghettini with truffles. Proscuitto and cheese. Sushi. The list is huge. Food is life of course and being able to tie moments in life to a tasteful memory, be it my own cooking or even better someone else's is reason enough to get up every morning.

Nectar of the gods. Wine is proof that god loves us and wants us to be happy. Throw in the occasional refreshing cider, a good beer and from time to time, a nice single malt or trippy cocktail. Many a wonderful hour spent in engaging conversation, tom foolery and simple pleasures with a drink in hand enjoying la dolce vita.

Music.

I have learned that appreciating the small things in life and being able to enjoy the moments as they arise is one of the ways to be happy.

I understand that the grass is never greener on the other side, just a different shade of green.

Doing stuff is much more satisfying than having stuff.

I've seen the smoke and lived in the weeds. Through chaos comes serenity.

I know everyone is crazy to some extent or other.

How you say things matter.

My kids. My three little birds. The best part of me lives with them. Both proud and humbled because of them.

A better man. Not the best man, just a better man. Tomorrow will be better still.

Ciao
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